Last month I was privileged to participate in a long overdue family celebration.  We met at grandpa’s in Old Town Eureka Springs Arkansas.  While delighting the senses with a decadent spread of hors d’oeuvres and Argentine Malbec, we began discussing birthday festivities.  Not so much as a casual mention of turning 35 sent my sister into roaring laughter.  She turned to me and asked, “seriously Kate?”  To which I appropriately responded, “what?” “You’re not turning 35,” she s